Monday, November 3, 2014

My Life in the 1900’s



My Life in the 1900’s 

(Some names have been changed to protect the identity of the characters. Details have been altered to fit the culture of the times.)


I was born, Maggie Helen Linden, the second daughter of Minister Nicholas Linden and his wife Marion. As his title suggest, he was the Minister in our small town of Clayton. He was well respected by everyone in Clayton and loved to tell stories. His weakness was the game of baseball to which he could be seen running bases with the young folk up until his sixties. My mother Marion raised us and spent her free time assisting the town doctor by making house calls. She was ambitious about her work which was rare for women of her time. Many of the women would come to her to find wisdom in times of trouble or hardship.
All three of us children attended school regularly. My older sister Alonza was very academic and excelled playing the clarinet. She grew up and married the sheriff in the town over. They had more kids then they knew what to do with. My younger brother William was the strong silent type. His interest in reading led him to explore the world of film. He was shunned by the townspeople for his involvement in the immoral cinema industry. My parents never mentioned it but I knew deep down they were proud of his accomplishments.  

My childhood was pleasant. I enjoyed school but was frequently in trouble for repaying the boys in my class for pulling my braids. My parents would rebuke me and send me to my room. At the age of sixteen, finding no suitors in my town to settle down, my father agreed that an education would help me mature. I studied to become a teacher and found it to be my true passion. During the last month of schooling, I met a young man named David. He was the son of a farmer and in line to inherit the farm. His love for academics and adventure made him forgo his farm duties and go off to college. He was studying to become a banker.  Our time of getting to know each other was short; but was enough to start a correspondence via mail.
After my exams, a job was secured for me to teach in my home town of Clayton. For the next year, I grew as a teacher while writing every night to my dear David. My father approved of our courtship and a year and a half later we were married. I continued teaching as David began his work at the town bank. We lived in a small apartment above the bank and attended my father’s church every Sunday. Our first son Jethro soon came into the world. He had a vibrant and youthful spirit and much resembled his father.  A little short of two years later we would welcome in a sister for little Jethro. 


Works Based Faith

"Works based faith" - instantly you tell yourself that you are not in this category.  But is that really true...
Do people around you have to EARN things? Does everything have to be equal or fair?


- You only tips a waiter if they do a really good job.

- Conversation between parents, "I already changed a dirty diaper today so it's your turn." 

- Conversation between spouses, "I did the dishes so you have to finish laundry." 

- You justify gossiping about your boss or co-workers because they really are awful!


I'm no saint - I've done all these. But about a year ago my husband extravagantly tipped a waitress with terrible service. I was a little mad. He said it didn't matter that she didn't earn it; maybe she was having a terrible night. I couldn't argue with him. Then a few months later, he surprised me again. We were at a restaurant and he asked the waiter for the check.......and the check of two gentlemen across from us. I was stunned but nodded to the waiter that what my husband said was correct. The manager was very confused and asked if we knew the guys. No, we didn't. Couldn't even judge their character from listening to their conversation. They didn't speak English. 

These stories aren't to glorify my husband (he's probably mad I'm telling this story) but to tell you where my contemplation of true grace started. I really do believe that a business and their service should be held to high standards. Unfortunately this clouded my vision to see hurting people/ opportunities to bless the undeserving. 


My marriage is another place I expect EQUALITY/FAIRNESS!!!!! You Mister, better earn your kiss goodnight...

Let's say I'm still learning this lesson...

We devote time and money to many well-deserving people and organizations as a form of stewardship. In the process, the undeserving miss experiencing the deep levels of God's grace. And unfortunately we give the least grace to those closest to us- family. 

These cats would not have made the cut if it was a "works-based" system for entry to heaven- Zacchaeus, Mary Magdalene, Moses, and YOU.

Be EXTRAVAGENT with grace! It helps to ask God to give you revelation of His extravagant grace over you.